‘Loved and adored’ first officer based out of Charlotte died in DC plane crash, sister says
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American Airlines plane crash in Washington
American Airlines flight 5342 from Wichita collided with an Army Black Hawk helicopter over the Potomac River in Washington, D.C., on Jan. 29, 2025. Authorities said no one survived, including a Charlotte-based crew. Here is ongoing coverage from The Charlotte Observer.
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Tiffany Gibson was supposed to see her little brother Samuel Lilley soon. He had just visited her family in Goldsboro with his fiancee, but the siblings were already making plans for the next visit.
But the family was shocked to learn that Lilley, 28, was among the 67 people who died in the PSA Airlines flight from Wichita to Washington, D.C., Wednesday night. There were 60 passengers and four Charlotte-based crew members on the jet and three people on the military chopper.
Gibson confirmed in a phone interview with The Charlotte Observer that Lilley was the first officer on the American Eagle jet.
“He was a fun, adventurous son and brother,” Gibson said. “I have three kids that he was an uncle to. He was the ‘funcle’. They all loved and adored him. And he loved traveling and he loved flying.”
Despite the 13-year age difference, Gibson said, the siblings developed a special bond since she took so much care of him as a baby when she was a teen. And he had a lot to look forward, Gibson said.
“He was soon to be a husband and he was excited about that,” Gibson said. “He was excited to start a family and get a dog.”
Second career as pilot
While their father, who was in the army, spent his career as a pilot, Lilley didn’t initially follow in his footsteps. He tried his hand at a marketing career at first, Gibson said. But he quickly realized it wasn’t a good fit and, after discussing it with their dad, decided to go to flight school and become a pilot.
It could be challenging at times for Lilley, Gibson said, but he was able to push through and finish. Not only was he proud of himself for finishing school, she said, but he also discovered he loved being a pilot.
“He may have struggled ... but he was willing to put in the effort and work, and that’s what got him to where he was,” Gibson said. “His motto is: ‘You can do anything that you put your mind to, even if it’s hard.’”
The sudden loss of Lilley has been difficult, Gibson said, and the family is still in disbelief about what happened.
But “we take (heart) in the fact that we know that he’s with Jesus,” Gibson said.
Observer database editor Gavin Off contributed to this report
This story was originally published January 30, 2025 at 6:32 PM with the headline "‘Loved and adored’ first officer based out of Charlotte died in DC plane crash, sister says."